I have health problems that mean my stamina is very low and I’m very weak most of the time. Even standing for a few minutes could be enough to make me pass out. For the early days of my marriage I was essentially bedridden a lot of the time. I can’t count the number of times I passed out trying to get to the restroom while my husband was at work, or vomited from over-exertion just trying to get a snack from the kitchen.
One day while at my in-laws house, it came up that my husband washed the dishes sometimes. My mother-in-law turned to me and said in an accusing tone ‘I just couldn’t have any respect for myself as a woman if I let my husband come home from work and do the dishes.’
Guess not only is it My Fault I’m Disabled, but #MFIF.
Slovenly Emasculating Wench, London